We all have relationships with people. However there are some people that are naturally very focused on the dynamics between people. These people are what I call natural relators. I love natural relators. Most people do. If you are not a natural relator, like me, then many of your close friends will be.
There are various different aspects of relationships that people might focus on. These aspects include people’s emotions, conflict, potential and progress, the effects of change, belonging, authenticity, and uniqueness.
There are a number of positives that come from being very aware of these dynamics. The first is that natural relators are often very good at reading people. They will often know if somebody is not having a good day or if there is an undercurrent of conflict. When they learn to effectively manage this and respond in healthy ways they will really impact people’s lives.
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